Thursday, December 20, 2012

Communion


Camila's First Communion (and mine)


Just couldn't get her to smile
Attending a First Communion mass was done out of obligation. I just couldn’t say no to that precious, pleading little face. So, I went. Usually, Peruvians show up tardy to most any event, it’s called “Hora Peruana”. But, in this case, the church was packed well before the appointed hour, meaning I would stand at the back of a warm, windowless, tin-roofed temporary structure, inside the fallen, ancient church, until the new church is complete. The one redeeming moment was when I pressed forward for a photo and Camila squealed “Look, it’s my friend Goyo !”, adding proudly, to her friends, “He’s from the United States.” The rest of the hour and a half was a rapid fire agenda of processions, recessions, incantations and too little music. The speed was both astonishing and merciful, as the main purpose seemed to get done with the affair. Kind of like bad sex.

The pachamanca afterwards more than compensated for the earlier discomfort. To begin with, it was wonderful to see “my kids” – Camila, Santi and Amir. I’ve been missing the rascals since their parents moved to Lima and farmed them out to local relatives. Sadly, they’ll be moving to Lima themselves at the end of the month. And then there was the feast itself. . Pachamanca is a traditional Peruvian feast, cooked in an earth pit. A clam bake of sorts. Wood is set into the hole in a very particular pattern and covered by clean round stones. The fire is lit and heats the rocks and all the food is carefully placed – again in a very specific way, so that all the ingredients will be ready simultaneously. The food is covered with multiple layers of washed banana leaves, then burlap sacks and then about 6” of dirt to insulate. A cross with flowers is the traditional “topping-off” ornament.

After an insufferable 2.5 hours, the dirt is scraped away, burlap and leaves peeled back to reveal a steamy, perfectly cooked buffet. This feast was : pork, chicken (wrapped in mint), lamb, potato, sweet potato, corn and fava beans. And it was all succulent and delicious. Beer, wine, pisco and good cheer flowed at all quarters. And I waddled home – an over-fed, but very happy camper.

My friend, Popi, patriarch of the Duenas family at the goat farm, mercifully passed away last night at a hospital in Lima. It was a sad visit with Avelino this morning remembering this wonderful man. He suffered a stroke last week, that left him ½ paralyzed and speechless. At 87, he had a long and rich life, surrounded by loving family to the end. Until his stroke, he worked in the fields every day – it was his joy, caring for the herd of goats. When I saw him in the hospital last week, his eyes said he was ready to go. Thankfully, he got his wish and was not kept artificially alive, as might have happened in the US.

This is part of the Peace Corps experience. We are in country long enough, that we become part of the community – feeling both their joys and sorrows. The people we serve are not anonymous faces in a distant land. They are my friends and family – people that I share meals with and look in the eye. I would not have it any other way.

Gloria and I presented awards for the AIDS program at the Colegio in front of the morning “formation”. It really is a formation, where kids march onto the parade grounds and do military style movements to the barked orders of an ex-Army colonel. The kids have worked hard and attended after-school sessions to complete before Navidad and summer vacation. (remember I’m in the southern hemisphere).

And the playground project is inching along – jungle gym and swing set complete, work started on see-saw. Looking good, so far.

It will be another Christmas – Navidad without the hoopla. Very few people here put up lights or any other decoration. There is little frantic shopping for gifts. There will be MANY small parties, all featuring a very light fruitcake called pantone. Last year, I was certain I would OD on the stuff, tasty as it is. The cake is washed down with chicha morada, a traditional drink made from blue corn. And there will be numerous processions of adorable moppets to the church. I really like this low-key approach to Christmas.

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